How To Create Blank Space In Your Life

The idea of creating space for what’s important in my life has been my main focus lately. I really want this month to be the time where I’m super intentional about where my time is concentrated and spent. So I thought discussing how to create blank space would be the perfect way to start off Minimal Mondays.

Blank space (to me) are the little moments and pockets of time that you have and you use them to do what’s important to you. Because being busy isn’t always a good thing. Sometimes you just need to take it easy and focus on resting, reading, or doing a hobby that you enjoy. Blank space is all about paying attention to the little moments and joys in life.

how to create blank space in your life:

allow yourself to take breaks

Start prioritizing the time in your life for what you want to do. I’m working on creating even more balance in my life with my day job, this blog, hobbies, exercise, and resting. It takes a lot of time, but as long as I am prioritizing it all it’s allowing me to input breaks for myself.

I cannot stress how important breaks are for your mind, body, and soul. It’s important to let yourself rest and rejuvenate. I have taken a few blogging breaks and breaks from all media. Sometimes you need to get away and focus on what’s important. You can’t be everything to everyone all the time. Because you’ll stress yourself out and burn out and that won’t be good for anyone. So don’t push yourself to far, instead take a break. Whether it’s a ten minute break that your job gives you and you never take it, or it’s a fifteen minute walk on your lunch break without looking at your phone.

Being stressed and overwhelmed isn’t good for anyone. And I’ve learned that I’m the type of person that needs rest and to take care of myself. So learn to take care of you too, so you can be the healthiest version of yourself.

learn to say no

You can’t stretch yourself thin and be everything to everybody. So learn to stand up for yourself and say no. If you don’t want to do something because you just don’t feel like it, say no. I remember going through a period of my life when I was a people pleaser and I was miserable. Once I realized that I didn’t have to continue being this way. And I started saying no to things I didn’t want to do, and yes to the things I did – it made a big difference. As selfish as it sounds: sometimes you gotta put yourself first. And I don’t even think saying no is selfish. You can’t do it all. So take it from me because I learned that the hard way.

give yourself grace

Life’s hard sometimes and too many times we make ourselves feel bad about everything we do. This is why giving myself grace has become a big aspect of my life. I am the type of person that is extremely hard on myself. I even wrote a post on letting go of control, which is still a struggle at times. We all work so hard and giving yourself time to binge watch a tv show, or sleep an hour later on the weekend is okay! It’s taken me a while to feel like this. I would beat myself up over the little things like I didn’t exercise for exactly 60 minutes, instead I did 55 minutes. I mean, who cares? The point is that I actually took time out to go to the gym, which if you know me – I hate exercising haha. So just give yourself grace and be kinder to yourself – that is what is most important.

make time for your hobbies

I love hobbies. I didn’t realize how important they were to me until this summer. Especially since I started running this blog more like a business. So I got back into adult coloring books and creative ways to shoot images. I love photography, but I dismissed it for a while. Now I’m into it even more and I’m looking at investing in an even bigger DSLR. Hobbies are a great way to get out of your head and do something purely for enjoyment. And as you start finding that blank space in your life you’re able to prioritize your hobbies more.

practice minimalism

I mean, need I say more? Practicing minimalism allows you time to focus on what you find valuable and let go of the rest. When you simplify your life you’re able to prioritize your time in a way that is perfect for you. You can rest more on weekends and take part in hobbies you enjoy instead of doing something you don’t care about. Minimalism has shown me that I need to give myself grace when I need a break. It has made me look at everything differently and slow down. Because sometimes less really is more.


HOW DO YOU CREATE BLANK SPACE IN YOUR LIFE?

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Indya S
3 years ago

I love this series idea! I am getting more into minimalism, and am already thoroughly enjoying the feeling of being organised. It makes me quite calm, which is difficult for me to achieve.

I have gotten much better at saying no, but I definitely need to work on giving myself grace. I am very hard on myself. Thank you for these lovely tips!

Indya || http://www.thesmalladventurer.blogspot.com.au/

Felicia Renee
3 years ago
Reply to  Indya S

You’re welcome, Indya! I’m so glad that this post resonated with you! I hope you enjoy the rest of the series to come!

Whitney S.
3 years ago

I think having a balance is so important. We also always need to make time for our hobbies and things that we love. I say no to people, but I tend to feel somewhat guilty. But I don’t change my stance. If I’m saying no, I don’t change it to a yes.

Felicia Renee
3 years ago
Reply to  Whitney S.

That’s good, not enough people do that. People pleasing will make your more miserable than feeling guilty for a few minutes for saying no.

Lecy | A Simpler Grace

This is such a good reminder. I don’t know why we are so obsessed with packing our lives full of things and activities and not allowing a little margin to breathe. Great post, Felicia!

Felicia Renee
3 years ago

I don’t know why either haha & thanks! I’m glad you enjoyed it!

Anna Hubbard
Anna Hubbard
3 years ago

Learning to say no has definitely helped me balance things out! I’ll have to start incorporating some more of these in my life!

Felicia Renee
3 years ago
Reply to  Anna Hubbard

That’s great! I hope these tips help you!

Crystal @ Dreams, etc.

This is something that I’m working on and I definitely need to be more intentional about it, because I’m not doing well. Great tips for creating space in your life!

Felicia Renee
3 years ago

Awe, thanks – I’m glad it resonated with you!

Megan
3 years ago

I love this post. I wrote about something so similar today actually. I’m a total people pleaser and I’ve been learning to let go of always having to be “on the ball” and taking time off for myself. I’ve been feeling overwhelmed lately so I need to make more time for self care.

Felicia Renee
3 years ago
Reply to  Megan

Thanks! That’s good – you have to take care of you! It’s hard at times, but it’s completely needed!

Katie
3 years ago

I have got to figure out how to embrace some of that minimalist lifestyle! I think it will completely change my life.

Felicia Renee
3 years ago
Reply to  Katie

It’s all a process! Just start with one aspect of your life and move on from there.

Tami
Tami
3 years ago

This is an amazing post! I’m forever learning how to say no, I don’t know why it’s so hard for me. I just hate the idea of disappointing people, even though I know it’s necessary sometimes. Thank you for sharing this! 🙂

Felicia Renee
3 years ago
Reply to  Tami

I’m glad that it helped you!

Aishwarya
3 years ago

Your thoughts are so beautiful! At first I was intrigued after looking at the post title. And then as I read, you completely changed the meaning of blank space in such a powerful way! Really need to practice it! 🙂

Felicia Renee
3 years ago
Reply to  Aishwarya

Awe, thank you so much! Your comment makes me so happy!

Becca
Becca
3 years ago

This is such a fab post! I will def be using some of these tips. I cannot wait to see more content like this! I really needed to see the give yourself grace because I’ve been so hard on myself lately.

Felicia Renee
3 years ago
Reply to  Becca

I’m so glad that it helped you! That makes me happy to hear!

Rachel Ritlop
Rachel Ritlop
3 years ago

I couldn’t agree more that learning to say “no” is crucial if we are going to free up some space in our lives!

Felicia Renee
3 years ago
Reply to  Rachel Ritlop

So true!